Sometimes when no one else helps you since they can’t benefit from you and one in a million does then people get angry. Why did this person get helped and they treat them badly when they travel and get tortured at the airport, rejected at the driving test, rejected at interviews, ridiculed and mocked out of harshness.
When we did not hire this individual, why did this person hire her? So now we will fail her in the course she takes or lie about her so she does not get work and or her husband fails in his endeavors.
Society could make but not break an individual and people who listen to the community members for hiring and promotion purposes are putting blinders. They need to ask themselves why are people saying these things? Would they listen if these things are said about them or their family members? How would they feel if their grand kids and kids are prevented from getting jobs or ridiculed at interviews due to negative and lies from community members.
Do they have proof to prevent someone from success? Could this proof be tampered with, created, put together by clever con artists? Or do you just take the word of one over the other? In a class when two kids bring their sides of what happened? You can ask for witnesses, but how do you know the witnesses are taking one side over the other and maybe part of the plot – the little or big white lie.
So unless you see for yourself and absolutely sure 110 % do not listen to made up stories since that would definitely build up your karma. This may lead to people having to imagine their grandma or grandpa gave money for a job when their grandparents were helpless only to build a wall to protect them from torture and ridicule and harassment for getting work from one person when all others overlooked them at interviews.
When it comes to marriage, should a woman be forced to marry a man who is shorter than her? Especially when her disabled father wants her to find a partner who is a six footer and other conditions. Just because her gullible mother or step mother was induced to stay in this man’s house as a tourist either because she was too cheap to pay for a hotel or just scared of staying alone with her young daughter in his home as guest should not force this woman to date this man which will not lead to marriage just because she stayed there. Is that the price for accommodation as a tourist when she did not choose to stay there, her mother did and she did not even have a job at that time so she could not pay for a hotel herself and had to listen to her mother who might be a shallow thinker.